My Divorce and DOG CUSTODY NIGHTMARE What I Learned

In this heartfelt and lively episode, Jessica Abernathy and Tricia Montgomery dive into the complex, often emotional topic of divorce and how it impacts our pets. From personal stories of shared custody and unforgettable pet-related negotiations, to navigating what happens when two- and four-legged family members all face big changes, Jessica and Tricia deliver insights grounded in both professional experience and everyday life.

The hosts openly discuss their own divorces and the challenges of ensuring pets land in the right hands, whether through legal battles, creative “sales” to friends, or family negotiations. They highlight how laws are evolving and how some states—like Illinois and several others—now consider the best interests of pets, not just treating them as property. The episode also explores legal and practical considerations for pet custody in dating relationships and the importance of documentation and planning, including the role of prenuptial agreements and animal trusts.

Jessica and Tricia address the emotional toll on pets as they adapt to new routines and environments, reminding listeners that our animals feel the stress of family transitions too. They share anecdotes—including memorable stories about cats, French Bulldogs, and the infamous “man card” scenario—and offer practical advice for navigating both planned and unplanned changes in our pets’ lives.

Other episode highlights include:

Why routines and stability matter so much during family changes

The surprising time people spend choosing appliances versus lifelong pets

The need for preparation before adopting pets—spontaneity isn’t always best

How to create plans for our pets in case of unexpected life changes

Upcoming special guests and bonus episodes, plus the launch of Moose’s March!

Tune in for real talk, laughter, and helpful tips on how to treat your pets like the family members they are. Subscribe so you won’t miss future episodes and special segments!